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How to End the Tyranny of the Scale

I will share with you some of my personal struggles with the body image issues. If you’re struggling with binge eating, emotional eating and food addiction, you may also be struggling with body image issues that make you feel like a failure. You may find yourself having negative thoughts about your body or feeling that if you keep saying bad things about your body, you’ll eventually get the body you want. All of this, however is keeping you from living your life and here’s why you can do to change that now!
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Help! I’m Stressed to the Max and I can’t Stop Eating!

If you are struggle with food addiction, emotional eating or binge eating, stress can trigger emotions that you may have been regulating with food. Managing stress without food requires that you learn a new set of skills to use when you’re feeling overwhelmed, worn out, or stressed to the max. Managing stress also requires learning to tap into your body’s wisdom to identify the early warning signs and symptoms of stress, a key first step toward handling stress differently. Stress management involves a moment-by-moment mindful awareness that you may not naturally possess but that you can learn.
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Healing Food Trauma

If you struggle with food addiction, binge eating and emotional eating feel as if food obsessions and cravings, you may feel that food has taken over their lives. You may spend a lot of time and energy worrying about what to eat or what not to eat. These behaviors and thoughts may in part, be the result of food trauma. In this video, I will discuss how traumatic experiences such as being forced to diet as a child, being deprived of certain foods because of your perceived size, or being singled out or punished because of how much you ate may have shaped your relationship with food.
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Family Food Trauma - Interview with Betsy Thurston on Internal Family Systems Therapy

In this video, I interviewed Betsy Thurston, a dietician who also specializes in the use of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy as a unique tool in treating her eating disorder clients. The founder of IFS, Dr. Richard Schwartz describes IFS as “a powerfully transformative, evidence-based model of psychotherapy.” We will discuss how she has seen IFS work for her clients who struggle with eating disorders.
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How To, For Once and For All, Make Peace With Your Body

If you are dissatisfied with your body, you are not alone. While having self-doubts is a normal part of being human, if your self-evaluation is primarily dependent on your superficial appearance, your size or shape, that can lead to shame, negative self-talk, suffering and the use of extreme and harmful behaviors to reach the ever-elusive thin ideal. As well, it’s important to realize that trying to “hate yourself thin” can put stress on your body and increase belly fat and risk for diabetes and heart disease.
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Ending Body Hatred

You’re not born hating your body. So what happens to change that? Body hatred can be caused by experiencing weight stigma, being bullied in school or at home or your own internalized feelings that you’re not good enough in your current body. Body hatred, though, is associated with even more episodes of binge eating, higher rates of emotional eating. As well, body hatred can make it feel like you are divorced from your body and that your body is your adversary. You can’t go from body hatred or even body dissatisfaction to body love overnight. Listen to this video to learn what you can do.
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How Body Movement Can Help Heal Binge Eating and Food Addiction?

Physical activity has been co-opted by the diet industry just as food has – in other words, only good to get you to lose weight. No wonder thinking about body movement may send you into a fit of resistance or rebellion or make you feel guilty – feeling you’re not doing enough or not doing the right kind of activity that the experts say you should. If you struggle with binge eating, food addiction or emotional eating, you may struggle in finding a way to move your body that doesn’t feel like something you have to do or something you feel bad about not doing.
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Skills You Can Use To Stop Binging and Overeating NOW!

The first goal of therapy if you have binge eating, compulsive overeating, food addiction or emotional eating should be interrupting any current unwanted behaviors, such as bingeing, overeating, obsessing about food or your body. But these behaviors are so automatic and so linked to emotions that often are not acknowledged or even recognized, that it’s hard to stop or interrupt them. There are skills that can help you if you want to move on and just don’t know how.
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Five Steps to Recovery: #5 Finding Soul Satisfaction

If you’re struggling with food addiction, binge eating or emotional eating, at some point you may have come to realize that there’s something deeper to your food and body image issues. If you ask yourself what the cause is of most of your suffering about your food obsessions and body hatred, you may realize that it is because of these problems you have not allowed yourself to express who you truly are. You may have held yourself back in your career, in relationships, as a parent and in other roles you play in life because of your size. The ultimate goal of recovery from binge eating, food addiction or emotional eating is to find soul satisfaction and to bring it into all areas of your life, including your relationship with food and how you feel about your body.
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Five Steps to Recovery: #4 Creating New Core Beliefs

Unconscious core beliefs can stand between you and your goal to put an end to your food, body image, and weight issues. When first formed, usually when you were younger and during times of transition, trauma, or emotional upheaval, core beliefs are solutions to problems you couldn’t solve—perhaps because you didn’t have the resources at the time. Research highlights the importance of addressing negative core beliefs; when they are not addressed, you may find it more difficult to stop unhealthy behaviors.
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5 Steps to Recovery #3 Embracing the Body's Wisdom

If you’ve been struggling with binge eating, emotional eating and food addiction for most of your life, you may view your body as an adversary. When you experience negative feelings about your body, it may be the result of past hurtful experiences from childhood, which can lead to a disconnection between you and your body. This can lead to your self-evaluation (how you feel about yourself) being tied to your body size or shape and a desire to whip your body into shape. When you reconnect to your body, you can tap into a vast reservoir of wisdom and advise that will guide you in your recovery from binge eating, emotional eating and food addiction.
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5 Steps to Recovery #2 – Uncoupling Your Emotions from the Behaviors that Drive them

Did you know that there is a hidden force that drives your behaviors associated with food addiction, emotional eating and binge eating? This hidden force is your emotions and when you struggle to regulate your emotions, it can have a big impact on your binge eating, emotional eating and food addiction behaviors. If you have food and body image issues, you may respond to emotions by using food to numb yourself or tamp down even happy feelings. Both reactions to emotional pain are two sides of the same coin—attempts to escape from your emotions, or from the “emotional soup.”
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5 Keys to Recovery: #1 - Stopping Superficial Behaviors

If you’ve tried different diets to help with food obsessions, binge eating or emotional eating, you may have concluded that your food and weight issues are not about food. These issues are about how you use food to deal with your emotions, experiences from your past, and beliefs that have resulted from past hurts or traumas. By working on your food and weight issues on a deeper level, you can expect your healing to also be deeper and more sustainable. Over the next podcasts, I will be sharing with you the 5 Steps to Recovery from food and body image issues.
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Answers to Anorexia with Dr. James Greenblatt

Anorexia nervosa is a life-threatening illness that is challenging to treat and can be overwhelming for families seeking help. The Minnesota starvation study dating to the 1950’s showed without any doubt that starvation causes psychological as well as physical symptoms – symptoms that mirror symptoms of individuals with anorexia. The current state of treatment for anorexia has ignored this connection and instead resorts to the use of medications that lack FDA approval and therapies that have consistently been shown to be ineffective. What is needed is addressed by my guest, Dr. James Greenblatt who is a pioneer in the field of functional and integrative medicine.
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Binge Eating, Food Addiction and Emotional Eating – What’s the Difference?

It can be confusing to determine whether you have binge eating, food addiction or emotional eating. While criteria for binge eating disorder have been established for some time, research is beginning to show some of the ways in which binge eating and food addiction are similar and different. All of these disorders can affect men as well as women and are related to how you use food. It’s not food or your body that is the problem, it has to do with how you use food that may stem from early life adversity, trauma or neglect.
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Don’t Let the D’s (Despair and Depression) Get You Down

If you've struggled with binge eating, food addiction or emotional eating for some time, you may find that the stresses and isolation of the quarantine have worsened your symptoms. Or you may have had other life challenges that have caused stress and overwhelm in your life. All of this can lead to depression and feelings of hopelessness or despair. It can make your battle to make peace with food and your body feel even more difficult, leading you to fall back on using food to numb your emotions or provide comfort during these trying times. But there is hope! By nourishing your spirit, you can build resilience to help replenish your resources and give you the boost you need to rise to meet the challenges in your life.
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Tattoos and Trauma

Tattoos have become more acceptable over the years but are often only seen as having decorative value. My guest Donna Torrisi has written a book about the connection between tattoos and trauma. While a tattoo sits only on the skin, the meaning of tattoos may be much deeper for some individuals, telling a story of a difficult time in their lives, a loss or a story of abuse. In this way, tattoos are a form of self-expression that can tell you something about the person and their life’s journey. We heal from trauma in many ways…tattoos are one of those ways.
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5-Day Money Attraction Challenge Podcast with Tasha Chen

Many people who struggle with food addiction, binge eating, or emotional eating also have money problems – overspending, impulse buying or you may have had a bad divorce that left you with financial problems. In this video, you will learn: 1. About the 13 money traumas and how they may be holding you back 2. Why how you manage your money can be a window into your other life challenges. 3. The difference between being deserving and being worthy and how that affects your ability to attract money into your life.
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How Body Image Archetypes Can Help You Be The Best You Can Be

If you struggle with binge eating, emotional eating and food addiction, you may also have body image issues. Your body image issues may keep you from doing what you want to do in life and keep you from being the best you can do. Think of your body identity as a role or archetype you have chosen to play in your life for the time being until you are able and willing to be your best self. This is the way you’ve learned to cope with being in a bigger body. Are you the rebel, wounded child or sexy mama? Whatever role you’re playing it may be covering up the truth of who you are. In this podcast, you will learn: 1. How identifying your archetype may help you to see your authentic self. 2. How negative self-talk just makes binging, food obsessions worse 3. Why you can’t “hate yourself thin.”
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Stop Self-Sabotage NOW!

Self-sabotage is common and happens to people from all walks of life. Many people with food addiction, emotional eating or binge eating self-sabotage with food as a way to numb unpleasant emotions or cope with stressful situations. This can lead to feelings of failure and can worsen the behaviors or body dissatisfaction. In this video you will learn: 1. What the connection is between perfectionism and self-sabotage 2. How trauma can be a cause of self-sabotage 3. 4 tips on how to stop self-sabotage in its tracks
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Body Memories, Trauma and Eating Disorders

Traumatic life experiences, including childhood trauma and the relationships you have with your caregivers growing up, has a direct affect on the nervous system – often throwing it out of balance. An out-of-balance nervous system can make it difficult for you to tolerate your emotions and this then leads to using food (and other substances and behaviors) to numb or manage your anxiety, sadness, fear, anger, and other emotions. In this episode, I talk with Irene Lyon from Vancouver, Canada about the links between trauma, body memories and binge eating, compulsive overeating, food addiction, and emotional eating.
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Eating Disorders in Pregnancy with Jaren Soloff, RD

Most eating disorders, including binge eating disorder, food addiction, and emotional eating occur in women during their reproductive years. It’s not unusual for someone with an eating disorder to also be pregnant or for relapse of an eating disorder to occur during or after a pregnancy. My guest will discuss some of the issues related to nutrition that occur when eating disorders like binge eating disorder, food addiction, and emotional eating occur in pregnancy. In this podcast, you will learn: 1. What is the most critical time for your baby to get the best nutrition for health and development? 2. What are some of the triggers during pregnancy for binge eating disorder, emotional eating, and food addiction? 3. How to nourish yourself during the fourth trimester.
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How our Food has been Engineered to be Addictive

There's been a lot of talk about whether foods can be addictive or not. In truth, there are a group of foods, called “ultra-processed industrial formulations” that have been engineered in the nutrition lab and that contain high amounts of fats, sugar, and salt. These foods can lead to eating behaviors that are addictive. Studies show that 50% of the American diet consists of these ultra-processed food-like substances and that these foods are a cause of increases in weight, diabetes, heart disease, and other medical problems.
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Stressed, Tired and Binging – You May have Adrenal Fatigue

Whether you've been stressed about your health, suffered losses, tired of the quarantine, had financial stressors, working long hours or had a relationship breakup, stress has become a constant irritant for many of us. If you're struggling with binge eating, emotional eating or food addiction, your eating behaviors may be the first sign that you are stressed to the max. When the situation goes on for weeks or months, and the stress becomes chronic, the adrenal glands burn out from chronic production of cortisol and may cause what is called adrenal fatigue syndrome (AFS).
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Eating: A Manifesto for Food Addiction Recovery

If you have binge eating disorder, emotional eating or food addiction, you may use food as a way to manage your feelings or to numb your pain. Rationally, we know that the hollowness of grief cannot be filled with chocolate cake. We understand that binging on a big plate of macaroni and cheese won’t truly make us safe or loved. But if you have food addiction, binge eating or emotional eating, you may have spent years eating for the emotional/stress reasons, it can be easy to lose track of the proper purpose of food. Now is the time to put an end to emotional eating, to get help for food addiction and to stop binge eating and change your relationship with food and your body.
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The 5 Things You Don’t Know About Food Addiction

There are over 200 million searches on Google for the term “food addiction.” Food addiction affects a large number of individuals, even though it's not accepted as a true diagnosis (yet) by the medical profession. Using the Yale Food Addiction Scale, 5-10% of the general population test positive for food addiction. Over half of individuals diagnosed with binge eating disorder also meet the criteria for food addiction. When you struggle with food addiction, the basic principles of healthy eating can get buried beneath your beliefs, fears, and obsessions.
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The Relationship Between Binge Eating and Grieving

Grief is a normal reaction to any major loss. If you've lost a loved one during the pandemic, you may have experienced complicated grief. The normal feelings of yearning and sadness may have been complicated by not being able to be with your loved one or not even being able to go through normal rituals that can bring a sense of comfort and closure. Maybe during the pandemic, you've experienced other serious losses - loss of a job, the breakup of a significant relationship, loss of a long term friendship or you've been diagnosed with a serious illness (including COVID-19).
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Conquer Cravings NOW! // How to Stop Cravings

Are you struggling with food cravings? Well, you're not alone. At least 50% of people experience food cravings on a regular basis. If you have binge eating, emotional eating or food addiction, these cravings can threaten to overwhelm you and lead to unwanted behaviors. You may use food as a way to "self-medicate" your emotions. Essentially, the stress or unpleasant feelings are the “problem,” and eating is the “medicine” that makes you feel better.
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Quarantine Resilience – Growing Through Our Suffering

When we began talking about the quarantine it was 8 months ago and I'm sure you, like me, had no idea that it would last this long. Because it has lasted so long, I am hearing from people all over the world and also reading the research showing that there are record increases in mental health issues. Social isolation, fears about the virus, home-schooling, working from home, unemployment and financial stress can lead to binge eating, emotional eating and food addiction behaviors. Building resilience will help you get through difficult pandemic/quarantine struggles. As well, many people are finding they have grown in response to their struggle or loss.
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Food and Money - Interview with Francine Rogers

You may not be aware that if you have binge eating, food addiction, or emotional eating, your relationship with food may be a mirror for your relationship with money. If you binge with food, you may also be a binge shopper or spender. My guest, Francine Rogers, says she can easily look at a client’s credit report and identify everything about their relationship with money. Both food and money can be used to self-soothe emotional upset, to celebrate, and to numb yourself.
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Midlife Eating Disorders - Dr. Carolyn Ross featuring Nicole Christina

Midlife eating disorders are increasingly common in women. Some midlife women experience binge eating, compulsive overeating, food addiction or emotional eating. Others may develop anorexia or bulimia. Midlife eating disorders may lead to unhealthy dieting as a way to solve uncomfortable transitions in life, grief and loss issues or other stressors associated with aging. There are many causes of eating disorders in midlife that can include pandemic depression, menopausal changes in body image, perimenopausal depression or anxiety over the future.
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Depression and Binge Eating Disorder

In some studies, the association is between 84% and 100% of those with these eating disorders also having depression and anxiety. Binging, food obsessions and body image issues can trigger or exacerbate depression and anxiety. Depression and anxiety can also lead to binging and emotional eating. There are many types of depression including – pandemic depression, seasonal affective disorder and some types of depression unique to women.
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How To Stop Using Food As A Crutch

If you've been using binge eating, emotional eating or food addiction behaviors or body dissatisfaction as a way to deal with your stress, emotions or to deal with underlying childhood beliefs of unworthiness or unlovability, it is hard to change. Want to know how to deal with stress and food cravings? Want stress relief, food addiction help and an end to emotional eating. In this episode, you will learn: 1. How to deal with emotions without using food as a crutch. 2. Specific actions you can take to deal with stress without using food as a crutch. 3. Why your body is the result not the cause of your problems.
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I love food

Have you ever heard someone say: "The reason I overeat, is because I just love food"? I hear this a lot from my patients with food and body image issues. But when you think about it - food doesn't taste any better if you eat just enough versus if you binge or overeat. So the question is: can you love food without having to eat more than your body needs. How does know this change your behaviors such as binge eating, emotional eating or food addiction? In this video I discuss: 1. How impulsive behaviors around food are driven by deeper needs. 2. What dopamine has to do with your food and body image issues. 3. Why your journey to healing is sacred.
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Shall I tell you what I find most beautiful about you?

The question above comes from the 1984 movie “Starman” and has stuck in my mind because the answer to that question is what exemplifies what makes Americans great. Protests about the death of George Floyd and the COVID-19 pandemic may be triggering your binge eating, food addiction and emotional eating. In this video you will learn: 1. Four techniques to help yourself stabilize and avoid unwanted behaviors during stressful times 2. What makes Americans a beautiful people. 3. Why your experiences during this time can take you deeper into the work of your own recovery.
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Children Are Like Sponges

Many childhood educators have said: "children are sponges." They soak up everything in their environment - both positive and negative. Did you have anyone in your life who made you feel safe and secure as a child? Did you have anyone who was nurturing, someone you could really trust to be there for you? 1. How do early life experiences prepare or injure your ability to deal with your emotions or cope with stress? 2. How do you build res ilience? 3. How does your family’s dynamic affect your current food and body image issues?
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Emotions, food and the body

If you are an emotional eater, this problem probably began early in your life. If you were never taught to manage your emotions as a child, this could have put you at higher risk for overeating as an adult. Overeating can unconsciously be a way of trying to change your negative feelings. If you grew up with a lot of toxic stress in your life, you may have found solace in binging on sugar or other foods as a way to cope with your feelings of depression, fear, and shame. That is why overeating are not about food.
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Consistency Trumps Intensity

Not only can chronic stress in adulthood worsen food and weight issues, early life stress can play a potent role as well. Toxic stress in childhood can have an effect on the hardwiring of the brain itself. If you've experienced toxic stress in childhood, your brain is also likely to crave not just sweets but intensity and novelty. If you have binge eating, emotional eating or food addiction, you may have found it difficult to be consistent with your efforts to make peace with food and your body.
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Stress Builds Character

“If you are never tested, you won't be prepared.” Research has shown that toxic stress - for example adverse childhood experiences (prolonged and extreme stress without compensatory support) changes the brain - increasing risk for addictions, eating disorders and other mental and physical health issues. However, on the other end of the spectrum, NO stress deprives a child in particular of the brain changes that help them learn emotional regulation and resilience. In childhood, life experiences AND life stresses (when coupled with family support) help the brain develop pathways that allow the child to better respond to stress in the future. The most important life experience for children is how their parents and other adults interact with them.
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How do you feel about your body?

For over a decade, beginning with the “Dove Campaign for Beauty,” how women feel about their bodies has been the subject of advertising and commentary in the media. Women have been subtly made to feel shame if they feel bad about their bodies. Your relationship with your body is a personal one. Many women have struggled with this relationship especially if they have binge eating disorder, food addiction or emotional eating. It can be difficult to feel good about your body when it seems that no matter how hard you try, your goals for your body are not being met. Beyond that, there is a movement to advise that you Love your body and at least feel positive about your body. Given the history that many women have with their bodies, including a history that may include bodies that have suffered with abuse or violence, it’s not realistic to jump from having a difficult or challenging relationship with your body to all of a sudden being in love with your body.
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Putting an end to negative core beliefs

Ready to stop obsessing about food, stop hating your body and put an end to sugar cravings? Are you tired of being at the mercy of your emotions, being unable to control binge eating when you feel sad, mad, glad or angry? It may feel like your emotions are in control and you’re helpless to stop unwanted behaviors from getting out of hand. You can put an end to emotional eating and stress eating. The key lies in being able to identify and change your negative core beliefs? Core beliefs such as “I’m not worthy” or “I’m unloveable” may be unconsciously driving your unwanted binge eating, food addiction or emotional eating.
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Ending Body Hatred

You’re not born hating your body. So what happens to change that? Body hatred can be caused by experiencing weight stigma, being bullied in school or at home or your own internalized feelings that you’re not good enough in your current body. Body hatred, though, is associated with even more episodes of binge eating, higher rates of emotional eating. As well, body hatred can make it feel like you are divorced from your body and that your body is your adversary. You can’t go from body hatred or even body dissatisfaction to body love overnight. Listen to this video to learn what you can do.
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Emotions, food and the body

If you are an emotional eater, this problem probably began early in your life. If you were never taught to manage your emotions as a child, this could have put you at higher risk for overeating as an adult. Overeating can unconsciously be a way of trying to change your negative feelings. If you grew up with a lot of toxic stress in your life, you may have found solace in binging on sugar or other foods as a way to cope with your feelings of depression, fear, and shame.